The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery

Perhaps they don’t realize that they are actually re-creating the relationship dynamics they experienced when they were young because they associate love with loss or abandonment. He came to believe that the fainting spells were a manifestation of his unconscious desire to get out of class, where he felt uncomfortable and unhappy. This is something that people who have never been deeply attached to something for a sense of safety and security and love and their future believe. That their fears are largely unfounded, that good things are coming, and that life will turn out well in the end.