Kink for Dummies

Note: Kink For Dummies is a book about kink desire and relationships among consenting adults, and the ways they relate intimately and sexually. Many Desire Mapping clients have started from a shut down, frozen, or fake place in their desire discovery journey. Polyamorous people with differing needs around intimacy and kink struggle to support each other and adapt. Having survived sexist violence and anti-lesbian disownment as a youth, she became a go-to resource on gender and sex as a matter of survival.