Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow Jay Stringer

Many of them had tried some combination of talk therapy, somatic therapy, couples counseling (if in a relationship), EMDR, Internal Family Systems, or life coaching. Torn between a desire to learn about sex and the reproach of his parents, he retreats into the world of porn, where he can pursue his curiosities in secret. Many couples communicate their needs effectively and foster emotional bonds, yet still struggle with sexual intimacy. See the Desire Workbook for the five best practices for offering feedback.